Life lessons always come a little after you need them. This week, I turned 23 and if I could go back in time there are a million things I would tell my younger self, but I’ve distilled it down to the key messages.
Twenty Three Life Lessons for Twenty Three Years
- Stress levels and sleepless nights are not a point of pride.
- Never get pressured into a relationship – if it feels wrong it probably is.
- Relaxation will help you work effectively.
- There are people in the world who would kill to have your problems, but that doesn’t mean you should feel ashamed to be upset.
- Everyone hates their nose (and there isn’t anything wrong with yours).
- It’s never too late to walk away from something that is bad for you.
- You’re probably going to regret that pixie cut, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.
- You won’t always get the praise you feel you deserve. That being the case, don’t work with praise in mind.
- Your work has value outside of praise. As a matter of fact, praise is the least of it.
- Learn to say no to added responsibility. Though ‘yes’ feels good, you’ll regret it later.
- Kind acts feel better when no one is looking.
- Your brother will be your best friend one day. Be nice to him.
- Prioritize sleep, and cherish your rest. You’ll understand how much it’s worth after a night shift.
- People who want to be in your life will make the time.
- Material possessions can’t make you happier.
- Don’t let perfection get in the way of completion. Done is always better than perfect.
- More caffeine will just make you exhausted and jumpy.
- Don’t let fear of failure prevent you from trying.
- Invest in good food, your body and mind will thank you.
- Asking for help doesn’t make you weak. Understanding your limitations is a strength.
- Anger isn’t productive. Conversely, neither is pretending you aren’t angry.
- You’ll know love when you find it and, by the way, you will.
- Don’t overthink it.
What about you? Take a minute to think about it and write down one lesson for every year you’ve been alive. Keep your list safe, and add to it every year. Life lessons don’t have to be huge to make a big impact on your life. If you’re looking for self improvement, check out these morning habits to kick-start your workday!
